Trying Dating App
- romance
- lifestyle
- reflection
Context: I saw a dating app advertisement on Instagram and got into thinking.
I have been thinking about dating apps for a very long time. I am just wondering whether connecting people online really works for deep relationships.
I used to think about actually trying one at some point, but I was afraid of hurting others' feelings. I would definitely reject everyone there, because I wasn't ready for a relationship. I was just curious about what's inside, and wanted to learn more.
Now I am considering turning into a bad guy and trying the app.
Here we go again, choose one:
Others' feelings or my own curiosity.
Day one
My first day on Tinder went so bad.
I went on searching for both men and women. Most of the people I found weren't my type, I guess? (Judging from their photos.)
For example:
- Men flexing their muscles
- Women wearing swimsuits
- Some being naked, with their arms concealing their nipples
- Some even posting genitals (wtf)
But there were also nice things. I found some of my friends on it lol. I read other people's biographies and kinda learned something new.
I feel like I grew a bit by seeing how the world really is. (I am still too naive.)
Stopping here
I wasted a lot of my time on it. Let's stop using it for now.
Now I'll just wait for someone to match me — but probably not any time soon, since I am using a different approach.
My profile photos are the ones that get people to know more about me, which is my face or my body. (I still can't imagine myself เก็กท่าหล่อๆ เท่ๆ or โชว์กล้าม lol.)
Yes, my thinking is so โบราณ. But I still hope these photos can get me some nice friends, or a lover.
Oh — maybe my type is someone who thinks like คนแก่.